What is tanking up?
Tanking up consists of the dream feed and cluster feeding. I go over dreamfeeds here. I go over cluster feeds here. Pretty much, tanking up is getting more food into baby's tummy during the day**, and specifically right before bed, so she she'll sleep longer stretches at night.
Why should I tank up?
So you and baby get longer stretches of sleep at night! And so you can start feeling less like a zombie and more like a person! Tanking up is also helpful with growth spurts which are plentiful in newborns.
When do I start tanking up?
Start it as soon as baby comes home from the hospital. If baby is under 8 weeks of age and you aren't cluster feeding, then you can give it a try. If baby is under 7/8 months (sometimes later) of age and you aren't doing a dream feed, then go ahead and give it a try.
When do I stop tanking up?
You can stop tanking up with the cluster feed around 8 weeks of age. Some babies need to stop sooner (my big boys both did) and some need to do it a little longer.
You can stop tanking up with the dream feed around 7 to 8 months of age. Some kids can drop it sooner, and some need it a bit longer.
Does tanking up work for all babies?
Like most things, tanking up doesn't work for all babies. It does seem to work for most, so it is worth giving it a try. If your baby is struggling with cluster feeding and the dream feeds then I suggest you drop the cluster feeds and just work on the dream feed. Many babies will not do both, and the dream feed is the more important of the two.
Remember to give it at least a few days to work before deciding that it doesn't work. And keep in mind that there are a lot of factors that determine when a child will sleep through the night. So tanking up can help, but it can only help so much.
**By day at this age I mean between morning wake time (likely around 7 am) to dream feed time (likely around 10-11).
Boy, I needed this when my two were younger. :o)
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What an awesome idea for a blog! Luckily I was blessed with a champion sleeper, though my totally dark bedroom and co-sleeping probably contributed to that too!
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Ayy yi yi! I did everything wrong with my now 15 month old son! :) He still nurses 2 X per night!! I'm tired. All the time!
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Thanks for the tip ~ I've never heard of this! Thanks for stopping by today too. I think I have returned all of the follows!
ReplyDeleteI never thought about feeding baby more right before bed. I will have to remember that for this one.
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Sure wish I had this info eleven years ago, lol!!
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ReplyDeleteAny advice for kids who are 4 and 6. I'm not sure clutter feeding would work for them. But I would love it if they went to bed without fighting me to do it! :)
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ReplyDeleteAt that age, it is more about having a good routine and having a plan and sticking to it. Let them know bed isn't an option and that all their tactics will not help (but you can't give in at all and you have to stay calm about everything). And try to make bedtime enjoyable. Read books etc. Hope that helped :)
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Thanks for visiting angela. When it comes to sleep, my kids were not born lucky at all! We had to work at it, a lot!
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ReplyDeleteWell, the good news is that if you decide to night wean, you will know 100%, pretty much from where ever you check, that he doesn't need the feed so you don't have to stress about that. I know that is a worry of a lot of moms :) Sorry you are tired all the time! No fun! My guess is that when you stop nursing things will improve. But I don't know when you plan on that happening. One of my friend (who is so tired all the time too) still wakes up to nurse her 3 year old every few hours---so it can go on for a long time with some kids!
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ReplyDeleteIt helps for most babies. With mine, not so much, but I know it has extended sleep for hours with some babies.
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ReplyDeleteWow, this is really great and helpful information. If only I'd known it when my little ones were that age. I do have quite a few friends who are pregnant or have just had babies. I will be sure to pass this on to them. Thanks for sharing. :)
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